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PostSubject: Re: Coming Out   Tue Aug 30, 2011 9:58 pm

summer camp = sometimes great camp stories xD

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PostSubject: Re: Coming Out   Tue Aug 30, 2011 10:14 pm

Do tell. I only went to sports camps in the summer, so I'm better it's not quite the same. Shall we share stories on here?
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PostSubject: Re: Coming Out   Tue Aug 30, 2011 10:32 pm

nah, lets just keep this open to coming out xD

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PostSubject: Re: Coming Out   Mon Dec 05, 2011 7:38 pm

Not me, but.. my ex-bf came out today to hes sister.. story is quite what you can find in "prayers for bobby" movie Sad
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PostSubject: Re: Coming Out   Mon Dec 05, 2011 9:30 pm

did he kill himself?

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PostSubject: Re: Coming Out   Tue Dec 06, 2011 3:10 am

Kell wrote:
did he kill himself?
god no.

But hes syster is all religious and "it can be cured" and etc, just like Bobbys mother in the film
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PostSubject: Re: Coming Out   Tue Dec 06, 2011 3:41 am

yeah. man thats so sad

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PostSubject: Re: Coming Out   Wed Feb 22, 2012 2:58 am

bunch of coming out stories

http://whenicameout.tumblr.com/

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PostSubject: Re: Coming Out   Sun Feb 26, 2012 3:07 am

In November last year, I got drunk told a couple of guys that I'm into guys too. Quite an... eventful night lol.
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PostSubject: Re: Coming Out   Sun Feb 26, 2012 3:11 am

details

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PostSubject: Re: Coming Out   Sun Feb 26, 2012 3:19 am

Most of everyone were supportive and while no one was like "ew, you're disgusting" or whatever they clearly taken back by it. I thought it's cos they were drunk but they were still feeling the same the next day too so i had to "talk to them" which was kinda embarrassing lol. But the night it was fun.
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PostSubject: Re: Coming Out   Sun Feb 26, 2012 3:29 am

more details.

how did it even come up, what did u SAY? c'mon man

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PostSubject: Re: Coming Out   Sun Feb 26, 2012 3:33 am

A man might've been giving me head in the toilet and i might've gloated about it with my friends and some of them might've said something like "you should get a bj from women, they're biologically pros at it" and i might've gotten pissed and said, "fuck you buddy, i give great head!"
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PostSubject: Re: Coming Out   Sun Feb 26, 2012 3:35 am

ur a terrible storyteller

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PostSubject: Re: Coming Out   Sun Feb 26, 2012 3:46 am

Do you want to do a re-write for me?
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PostSubject: Re: Coming Out   Sun Feb 26, 2012 3:53 am

i cant do a re-write since u didnt tell it good at all

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PostSubject: Re: Coming Out   Sun Apr 22, 2012 2:28 am

How do people feel about coming out in the workplace, or in places where you're the new person, like when you're first going to school. Are there places that you wouldn't come out, or is everywhere fair game?

I suppose a related thought is what counts as coming out now. Do we have to actively tell people at all times, or are there situations where it's acceptable to simply not talk about it unless you're asked, and then to be honest if it comes up. I guess what I'm going in a roundabout way to ask is what we all think the rules should be about coming out and how to do it in a way that doesn't put others on edge or create unneeded tension in the air, especially in places that might not be the most ready to handle things like that, for example in organized sports.

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PostSubject: Re: Coming Out   Sun Apr 22, 2012 2:47 am

im not comfortable talking about it with family. theyre accepting, but sometimes, especially my mom, its TOO supportive, like when she asks my opinion on a guy who might be hot xP


i consider there to be 3 types of coming out:

1. the very first person u tell ur gay (or just generally not straight)
2. ur general group of peers
3. immediate family

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PostSubject: Re: Coming Out   Sun Apr 22, 2012 3:49 am

What's the difference for you between them all?

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PostSubject: Re: Coming Out   Sun Apr 22, 2012 1:23 pm

I'll come out if it comes up. I don't see the need to come out otherwise.
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PostSubject: Re: Coming Out   Sun Apr 22, 2012 2:25 pm

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What's the difference for you between them all?

isnt it kind of obvious? lol

the very first person u tell is probably the overall hardest because for the first time, ur confiding in someone a very personal detail about urself that nobody else knows.

being "out" refers to people knowing right? well typically when we think of the "people" that typically refers to our peers, the kids in our grade, workplace, etc.

and of course, theres family. people often find it difficult to tell family, so they might be out to everybody else, just not their family

so whenever someone asks me when i came out, i ask them which kind of out do they mean?

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PostSubject: Re: Coming Out   Sun Feb 24, 2013 4:17 am

i dunno why i never posted this tumblr page here but this page is dedicated to peoples coming out stories. u guys should all put up ur personal stories here Very Happy. i did a while back & u dont need a tumblr page if i recall correctly. since i dont lol

http://whenicameout.tumblr.com/

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PostSubject: Re: Coming Out   Tue Sep 03, 2013 1:49 am

Trev: Well that has to be mildly upsetting to be outed like that. After all, coming out is supposed to be a personal process where you tell people once you feel comfortable. I think that's how it works anyways, I'm not too sure since I outed myself at school by leaking it to some of the biggest gossips in the school.

Alex: I was similarly blase about it, but only when I was ready. As much as you can know that everyone you care about will be completely accepting and it won't be a big deal for them, it's still a big deal for *you* opening up a part of your identity which you've hidden from the world for a long time. That's certainly my experience anyway.

Trev: I completely understand where you're coming from, and I'll admit that there was a part of me that was terrified about how I'd be treated. I was surprised by how little shock or commentary there was, and it's not like it's a small school either. My high school at the time had about 2500 students at it, so statistically you would have thought there'd be at least a few haters, and I think I was always worried about what would happen when they came calling.
Perhaps its a sign of the times, or of my reputation for athletics that saved me, but I never faced any grief for it at school, even after I came out. Or perhaps the gossip girls simply didn't tell anyone and no one knows yet. After all, I never really asked if they went about spreading it, I just assumed that they would. Now though, you'd have to live under a rock if you were a former classmate of mine and don't know about me.

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PostSubject: Re: Coming Out   Tue Sep 03, 2013 1:53 am

Oh yeah, I guess that all does belong here and not there.

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PostSubject: Re: Coming Out   Tue Sep 03, 2013 3:27 am

oh ya

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